when connecting to DF servers with lots of people:
http://www.simhq.com/simhq3/sims/boards/bbs/ultimatebb.php?ubb=get_topic;f=114;t=002181
WB.
See, I’ve been right all along. 
Perhaps I ought to lower my setting when hosting, maybe that’s what causing the bad respawn lags. Hmmm…